Stories, stories, stories.  Everyone has a story.  Has many stories.  I came to love all the stories about my Grandmother, my Dad and all the people they associated with in SECRET LIFE, SECRET DEATH, the good, bad and the ugly.  How is this possible?  Bringing the stories to light.  Brian Miracle, one of my actors in the movie, was working with me on a voice over of one of the VA psyciatrists, when he said to me, "How can you do this?  It's so personal?  So horrible?"  I said, "Either we work on this together in this sound booth or I'm going to explode."  That's how it works.  Bring the story into the light.  More about the film and book at www.secretlifesecretdeath.com